Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Do you find some people can drain your energy ?

Have you noticed when spending time with particular people, whether it is in person, over the phone, even through the computer that you feel completely drained as though your energy has been literally sucked from you ? These people leave you feeling as though you have run a 10 mile race with only spending a few minutes with them, even if it is not physically.

You may not even realize they are taking your energy, until a short while after your time spent with them. You may feel tired, unmotivated, have a headache or an upset stomach, when just prior to your time with them, you were feeling fine, even exceptionally well.

Most of the time, these people who take another energy are unaware they are even doing this. Rarely do they consciously make the choice to call you up and take you, for all the energy they can. They, if you think about it are probably not the most positive people to be around and this causes their energy vibration to remain at a low level.

When someone comes in contact with you, there is always an exchange of energy, but when ones energy is vibrating at significantly lower level than yours, you may find that they have inadvertently helped themselves to yours.

There are some measures you can take to protect yourself from someone taking your energy. Selecting certain crystals or gems that have qualities within them that help protect you by absorbing any negative energy that surrounds you. They can also place a protective energy shield around you, preventing you from absorbing anthers energy or them from taking yours.

You can also call on angels to place a protective energy shield around you. Simply visualize a white light surrounding you that will not allow any unhealthy transfer of energy to be passed between you and the other person.

Rarely is someone aware they are taking another's energy, but it does happen sometimes and you should be aware of this and when all else fails in protecting your energy from them taking it, a break from this individual may be necessary, sometimes even permanently.

Your energy is yours. Do not allow another to take it. Give it when you can and when you choose, but protect yourself from those who suck it from you.

Other dealing with negativity articles by SPIRITUALITY IN YOU.........

How to protect yourself from negative people.
http://spiritualityinu.blogspot.ca/2014/01/how-to-protect-yourself-from-negative.html

How to deal with non believers and sleeping souls.
http://spiritualityinu.blogspot.ca/2011/03/dealing-with-non-believers-and-sleeping.html

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How to transmute your experiences.

In order to transmute your experiences, you must first accept them all as learning experiences, and find the lesson in which it was trying to show you. Then we must let it become a healthy part of who we are. We experience, integrate and then transmute the experience, with who we are.

When a negative experience presents itself to you, it can feel like poison, the fears, heavy emotions, memories, and physical symptoms it can conjure up or trigger may seem like poison to our body and can reek havoc on our mind, body and even spirit.

When we can see why and what the experience is trying to show us, if we are conscious of what it is that's really going on, or know that all things happen for a reason, if we can take what needs to be learned out of a situation, it becomes neutralizes and we can then begin to transmute the negative aspects into a learning experience quickly and this allows what was learned to become part of who we are.

For example if you have struggled throughout your life, just to make ends meet, then you learned how to adapt. You always found a way. You are here and you reading this, so now you have to own the skill of always making ends meet. Some may become bitter over time and even resent those who seem to be well off financially. They have not transmuted their experiences with money, lacking, jealousy, what ever it is that is hurting them deep down, in a healthy way.

Those who struggle and still live their life with joy and embrace what is good, sharing their experiences about hardship with others who are struggling in the present, those who have been humbled by their lack of money and now offer what they can to help others,... they have transmuted their experience in a healthy way.

It has become a HEALTHY aspect of they the are. They are not burdened with negative thoughts or emotions from the past experience. Not only are they free of any resentment they now use their past experience to help others.

This is transmuting your experience !

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Human law verses Universal law

Human laws were conjured up by government and those in power as a means of controlling the masses. Religion and and school systems only amplified these human laws. We have been told these law are put into place for the best interest of everyone. Most human laws, serve government pockets and leave many citizen with little justice and less money.

Universal law is law that everyone has access to and it resides on a more universal level.

These laws are along the lines of do unto others as you would have them do unto you, or if you see someone in need and are able to help, then help.

Universal law, is sacred in the fact that it is law that our creator lives by and it never creates intentional pain on another. It is law so morally perfect, if we all followed them, there would be no need for human law. Universal laws are simple in that they....never intentionally harm another and help who you can, including yourself. Any action can fall under one of these categories when you break them down, they usually either go against universal law, or it IS universal law.

It would make life much more simple if everyone broke down their actions to these two opposites, and tried consciously to do right, but we are living with laws on top of more laws on top of a money hungry government that actually send police out with a monthly quota to ticket and hand out finds to citizens, in turn citizens put more of their hard earned money into the government money pot. This complicates things so much.

No worries things are changing and changing quickly. There is already a major shift going on right now, that is moving the masses into living by universal law. Look at all the protests and standing up to the government happening all over the world.

Human laws are not working and never will. Universal law, is the law of love and it is here to stay. It will only grow as more stand up, to the limitation government and religion has put on us.

Universal law will create peace and harmony among everyone who chooses to live by them. Be kind and live from your heart. This is universal law and it is the only law !

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Perfection....what is it ?... my thoughts.

Perfection is living through unconditional love and living in a state of continual forgiveness. It is releasing yourself from your ego and opening your heart knowing you are a divine being and God is within you and you withhold all in which our creator holds. Our creator is perfection and perfection is within us.

It is something we all strive for yet we already are. It is something we are told that we are not and have been conditioned through our religion and government to forget that we are.

Perfection is living life and enjoying what it has to offer, being aware of what it is trying to teach you, show you, or bring to your attention. The magnificent way it lovingly guides you in order to reach your chosen goals and full potential.

Perfection is seeing through the eyes of God at all times. It is knowing we are all one, we all come from the same source and what one feels, effects everyone.

Perfection is knowing that every soul need not ever be judged, for they are here to learn and seeing them through loving eyes, through compassion, through your heart will only help speed their evolution as well as yours, along with raising the entire populations energy vibration.

Impeccable, humble, honest, integrity, love, compassion,..perfection encompasses these actions as well as many other words that describe love, peace and harmony among all beings.

When we see the world through our heart, our actions will naturally fall under what can only be described as perfection. Our creator is perfection, and we are an extension of that, which is perfect. As we begin to wake up and start the healing process, we begin to see the perfection that is within.

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What does it mean to be CONSCIOUSLY AWARE ?

It means becoming aware of the fact we are not just born to live this life, then die. It is becoming aware there is so much more to the story then we have been told our whole lives. It is feeding that hunger inside of you that craves to know who we are and where we came from.

It is learning that we are these incredible beings that through misinformation have forgotten the incredible things we can do and what we came here to carry out. It is realizing that everything we see, hear, touch, and experience is only to help us understand life and remind us of where we are going.

It is being conscious to the deeper meaning of everything going on around you. Knowing every person, animal, number, word, or experience is trying to offer you a piece to your puzzle or another friendly push in the right direction.

Being consciously aware helps you understand what is really going on, which can be extremely beneficial, especially when going through a tough experience, or negative situation.

Being conscious to your life connects you to everything and everyone. It is being grateful for what is shown to you even when we sometimes don't understand it right away. It is knowing when something doesn't go as planned it just means it wasn't meant for us and there is probably a better opportunity already on it's way.

When '' everything happens for a reason '' becomes an understood and embraced as part of your vocabulary...you know you are on the path of being consciously aware, and what a peaceful place to be.

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Monday, August 1, 2011

Don't take it personally.

Whatever someone is reflecting onto you, is really an issue with themselves. They are acting, reacting, or behaving in a way they learned through their experiences. Whether some one taught them that behaviour or they picked it up themselves, finding it worked a few times, so they stuck with what works.

 Deep down they are in pain. From what ? There is a million possibilities. Regardless they will do unto others, what they have learned worked in the past, in order to get what they need or think they deserve. Whether it is money, attention, power, control, objects, and even love. When you find yourself confronted with one of the following scenarios, or any scenario, ask yourself what is really going on, see the bigger picture.

-If some one tells you to shut up...what they might be saying is...stop telling me something about myself that might be true, or I think about myself, even if it isn't true.

-If someone steals something from you, even if its someone you love, they are not attacking you or your stuff....what they are doing is..... feeding this illusion they have of themselves that they are not capable and worthy enough to obtain things through their efforts. They are afraid of not having....they usually take from those who are open hearted and somewhere in their soul, have a knowing that you will forgive them or they are simply crying out for help.

-If someone cheats on you in a relationship, it is not because you are not enough ....they are really saying...I am insecure and need constant confirmation that I am worthy of some wanting me, even if only for a short period, I need to have another give me their energy to supplement what I think I lack in myself.

-When someone gossips about you ....what there doing is....taking the attention off them and their shortcomings, by placing the attention on you, telling others anything about you, that will hopefully keep the attention off them.

-If some one hurts you physically...what they are trying to tell everyone is.....I am a coward and feel so low about myself that  must strike out on those, who I feel can not defend themselves. This is the only way I feel I can have any type of control in my life.

When you find yourself in an experience that effects you personally, watch for your lesson in it all (there will be one ), but remember who ever did '' this '' to YOU, did not, do it to YOU. You really have nothing to do with it, if you were there or not, they would still do... what they do. When it's not being done to you, they are dong it to someone else. Do not allow yourself to give more energy than necessary to anything done to you.

Your best bet,,, and yes this is easier said than done but it is the truth....is to learn your lesson out of the experience and then set healthy boundaries with these individuals, blessing those who put their ''stuff '' on you.

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Your life is waiting for you.

Where ever you are, right now....is the perfect place for you to be. If it were not, you would not be here. This does not mean you are meant to remain here, it means look around and within and realize this place is showing you what is waiting for you, and the steps necessary to get there. You know within what you truly desire and what ever surrounds you now is showing you and offering you opportunities to get to the life that is waiting for you.

This place your in right now, this frame of mind your in right now, the objects and people who surround you right now are all present to show you things about yourself, that you either need to embrace or you need to change and let go of.

What you desire is waiting for you to do the work necessary, in order to obtain what you desire. Your life is waiting for you. Waiting for you to take the step necessary to prepare for you coming life. This coming life is whatever you choose it to be, and it will wait patiently for you to decide that you really want it, want it enough to do the hard work, healing, learning, forgiving, releasing, or whatever it is you must do, to manage the life you want.

This does not happen over night, It takes time to manifest your biggest dreams and more importantly it takes hard work, dedication, patience, good intentions. Every one has a blissful life waiting for them, no matter where there are, or where they want to be. We are continuously given opportunities and guided to what needs to be done but only those who choose do the work will make it to the life that is waiting for them.

It is there right now, all wrapped up in a big red bow, with a big card that says.... CONGRATULATIONS, all your hard work has paid off, you balanced all the necessary areas of your life, you held faith through the hard times, when it seemed things were just to hard to keep trying, you kept putting one foot in front of the other, you persevered, you made it here to me the life you have dreamed about for so long, I welcome you and I love you....oh and.......p.s.  keep working hard because now that your here....there is more opportunities just waiting for you !!

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Take your power back. You're not a victim.

Well, if you feel you are..... it would be my most loving suggestion that you, change that very thought immediately. Being or considering yourself a victim keeps your vibrational frequency lower than necessary. Releasing yourself from being a victim instantaneously raises your vibration.There are infinite ways you may see yourself as a victim, and there is or was always a lesson for which you are to learn from. Feeling like a victim depletes your energy  and give away your power. This is not necessary.

Take control of your experience and stop letting it control you. Take back your power. Remember this thought...What ever you do to me I have the ability to get over it ! See all your experiences as learning experiences and knowledge gained. Use your experiences to help others who have been through similar experiences and are struggling in dealing with it.

Life is one big earth school with endless opportunities to learn and see things through your heart, to help those around us who are suffering. Heal from your experience. Honour your feelings by feeling them. If you feel like crying then cry, but be consciously aware that you are releasing these feeling in order to heal from them.

If you are angry, then feel angry, just do not react to the anger. Only experience the anger as an emotion you are experiencing in that moment. It will pass and although it may take some time, if your intention is to heal from whatever experience that has kept you feeling like a victim, then guidance will be provided, it will provide signs or syncronisities to help your healing process, but it is your job to notice and act upon it.

If you are unsure how to heal from a specific experience then ask for guidance, pray, and be ready to receive your answer in any way it might come, then be sure to follow through even when the going gets tough.

When we loose our victim hood, we regain our power and when we regain our power we have plenty to spare, so we are now able to help others heal from similar experiences and there is no greater feeling, than sharing your loving guidance to another soul who is feeling alone in their experience.

It allows you to take your power back.

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